Motivasi silaturrahim pengantin baru kepada kerabat dekat dalam tradisi masyarakat Banjar Kota Palangka Raya

Rahman, Muhammad Faidur (2021) Motivasi silaturrahim pengantin baru kepada kerabat dekat dalam tradisi masyarakat Banjar Kota Palangka Raya. Undergraduate thesis, IAIN Palangka Raya.

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Abstract

Penelitian ini dilatarbelakangi oleh pemenuhan hak dan tanggung jawab kepada kerabat dekat salah satunya menyambung hubungan silaturrahim. Manusia harus berusaha dengan berbagai cara untuk menjalin hubungan silaturahim dengan kerabat dekat. Hal itu karena, disamping menjadi hak mereka, termasuk kewajiban agama. Dalam Tafsīr al-Manār dikatakan bahwa salah satu hubungan penting antara manusia yang sangat diperhatikan al-Qur`an adalah kekerabatan. Di dalam masyarakat Banjar ada tradisi silaturrahim pengantin baru ke rumah kerabat dekat yang mengandung nilai-nilai baik dalam hubungan kekerabatan, oleh karena itu penelitian ini difokuskan untuk menggali motivasi pengantin baru melaksanakan silaturrahim pasca pernikahan serta bagaimana proses pelaksanaan tradisi tersebut. Jenis penelitian empiris. Pendekatan penelitian menggunakan pendekatan sosiologis dan ushul fiqh (socio-legal). Pengumpulan data menggunakan metode observasi, dokumentasi dan wawancara. Selanjutnya data dianalisis dan disimpulkan atau verifikasi. Hasil penelitian ini sebagai berikut: Tradisi silaturrahim pasangan pengantin baru ke rumah kerabat termasuk dalam upaya perlindungan nasab atau juga diistilahkan hifz an-nasl. 1) Motivasi pengantin baru bersilaturrahim ke rumah kerabat dekat untuk memperkenalkan pasangan kepada kerabat dekat atau mengenal lebih jauh kerabat dekat pasangan, menjalankan tradisi, memperoleh nasehat kehidupan berumah tangga, penghormatan kepada kerabat atas restu dan kehadiran di acara resepsi pernikahan, mengunjungi keluarga yang berhalangan hadir pada acara resepsi pernikahan. 2) Proses pelaksanaan tradisi silturrahim pengantin baru ialah melakukan kunjungan biasa, prosesnya tidak formal hanya berbincang santai sambil makan makanan yang dibawa pasangan pengantin, ditanyai latar belakang pasangan, sesekali diberikan nasehat dalam menjalani bahtera rumah tangga.

Abstract

This research was motivated by the decreasing involvement of close relatives in organizing weddings due to the desire to be practical in its implementation, even though in the Banjar community there is a tradition of newlyweds visiting their close relatives' homes which contain good values in kinship relations. Therefore, this research is focused on exploring the motivation of the newlyweds to carry out post-wedding visits and how the process of implementing this tradition. Types of empirical-sociological research. The research approach used a sociological approach and the ushul fiqh approach. Collecting data using the method of observation, documentation and interviews. Furthermore, the data is analyzed and concluded or verified. The results of this study are as follows: 1) Motivation of the newlyweds to visit their close relatives 'homes for friendship as well as introducing their partners to close relatives or getting to know more about the partners' close relatives, carrying out traditions that have been carried out from generation to generation, getting advice on household life from close relatives visitors, paying respect to relatives for their blessings and attendance at the wedding reception, visiting families who were unable to attend the wedding reception. 2) The process of implementing the tradition of visiting is to make regular visits or hospitality, the process is not formal, it is just chatting casually while eating the food brought by the bride and groom, being asked about the couple's background, occasionally given advice in running the household ark. The tradition of visiting the newlyweds to a close relative's house is included in the category of 'urf shahīh, this tradition is a tradition that can be carried out because nothing is against Islamic law, besides that many Islamic teachings are realized in the process of implementing the tradition of visiting.

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