Tanggung jawab anak terhadap orangtua lansia di Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya

Sartikasari, Nurul Aisiyah Fitriani (2017) Tanggung jawab anak terhadap orangtua lansia di Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya. Undergraduate thesis, IAIN Palangka Raya.

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Abstract

Di zaman modern ini kesibukan manusia terhadap tuntutan pekerjaannya sering menjadi kendala besar untuk merawat dan menjaga orangtua, sehingga alternatif yaitu menitip orangtua di Panti Jompo. Ada berbagai alasan masyarakat menitip orangtua di panti jompo. Hal ini menjadi dilema ketika tuntutan berbakti kepada orangtua dengan tuntutan pekerjaan. Lalu bagaimana pandangan hukum Islam terhadap fenomena anak yang menitipkan orangtua lansia di panti jompo.
Permasalahan yang diangkat dalam penelitian ini yaitu 1. Latar belakang anak merawat sendiri orangtua lansianya di rumah dan anak yang menitipkan orangtua lansianya di panti jompo Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya: dan 2.Tinjauan hukum Islam tentang tanggung jawab anak yang menitipkan orangtuanya di panti jompo Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya.
Metode penelitian ini menggunakan metode penelitian kualitatif, tempat penelitian di lakukan di wilayah kecamatan bukit batu Palangka Raya dan Panti Sosial Tresna Sinta Rangkang Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya. Subjek penelitian ialah 3 anak yang merawat dan 3 orang anak yang menitipkan orangtua lansia di Panti Sosial Tresna Sinta Rangkang Kecamatan Bukit Batu Kota Palangka Raya yang telah ditentukan melalui teknik purposive sampling. Teknik pengumpulan data melalui, observasi, wawancara dan dokumentasi; pengabsahan data melalui teknik triangulasi, kemudian data dianalisis dengan reduksi data, data display dan conclusion drawing/verification.
Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa 1) Latar belakang anak memilih untuk menitipkan orangtua lansianya di Panti sosial yaitu dikarenakan a) pekerjaan, b) kendala dalam komunikasi antara keluarga dan orangtua dan c) atas kemauan orangtua. Sedangkan latar belakang anak memilih merawat di rumah yaitu a) memudahkan komunikasi terhadap orangtua, b) mudah mengontrol kesehatan fisik, c) menjamin kebutuhan dan keperluan orangtua sehari-hari dan d) mewujudkan rasa cinta dan kasih sayang orangtua. 2) Pandangan hukum Islam terhadap tanggung jawab anak terhadap orangtua lansia yaitu baik merawat di rumah maupun menitip di Panti Sosial hukumnya boleh akan tetapi merawat orangtua di rumah lebih utama. Selama anak bagi yang menitip orangtua dalam melayani seyogyanya menjaga dengan memperhatikan tutur kata yang baik, melakukan yang lembut dan hati yang selalu berdoa kepada orangtua, begitu pula bagi anak yang menitipkan orangtua lansia di Panti Sosial agar selalu taat kepada orangtua dari tutur kata yang lembut, selalu rutin mengunjungi orangtua, memberikan perhatian lebih selalu berkomunikasi, selalu berusaha agar orangtua bahagia dan hati yang selalu mendoakan orangtua agar bahagia di dunia dan di akhirat.

Abstract

In modern times human activity against the demands of his work, often a major obstacle to caring and guarding their elderly parents. So that, the alternative is to send their parents to the nursing home. There are a variety of reasons people leave their parents to nursing homes. This becomes a problem when the demands of filial piety to parents with job demands. Then, how Islamic law perspective against the phenomenon of children who entrust elderly parents to nursing homes.
The issues raised in this research are: 1. What background people entrusted their elderly parents to a nursing home in Bukit Batu sub-district Palangkaraya city 2. What background people caring for their elderly parents at the house in Bukit Batu district Palangkaraya city and 3 reviews of Islamic law about the responsibility of the child who entrusted their parents in the nursing home of Bukit Batu district, Palangkaraya city.
This research using qualitative research methods, where the research is done in the Bukit Batu district of Palangka Raya and Tresna Sinta Social House in Bukit Batu district Palangka Raya city. The subject of this rresearch are 3 children who care at home and 3 children who entrust elderly parents at the Social House Tresna Sinta Rangkang Bukit Batu subdistrict Palangka Raya City which has been determined through purposive sampling technique. Data collection techniques through observation, interview and documentation; data validation through triangulation technique, and then data has analyzed by data reduction, display data and conclusion drawing / verification.
The results showed that 1) The reasons why people chooses to entrust their elderly parents in the nursing homes are a) working, b) the obstacle in communication between family and parents and c) on the willingness of the parents. While the background of people choose caring their parents at home that are facilitate communication to parents, b) easy to control physical health, c) ensure the necessity and necessary of their parents everyday and d) manifest the love and affection of their parents and 2) Islamic legal view of the responsibility of the child to elderly parents is either caring at home or sending in Social Home is allowed. As long as the children for those who are caring their parents at home should be careful with good speech, gentle and always pray fot their parents, as well as for children who leave their elderly parents in the nursing homes always obey the parents of the said a gentle word, has a routine visiting to their parents, giving more attention to always communicate, always trying make their parents happy and hearts who always pray for their parents to be happy in the world and also afterlife.

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